Holy Shift: When Faith, Trauma, and Control Collide
What if what you were taught about God... isn’t actually what God wanted you to believe?
If your faith story has become tangled with fear, shame, and silence, you’re not alone. Many trauma survivors, especially those who experienced spiritual abuse, find themselves wrestling with a painful truth: what you thought was “faith” might have actually been control or poor teaching.
Welcome to the messy, liberating work of disentangling from toxic theology. Let’s talk about what happens when faith gets twisted—and how to begin reclaiming a God who is tender, trustworthy, and trauma-informed.
When the Pulpit Turns Toxic: What I’ve Learned as a Trauma Therapist Working with the Wounded Church
Trauma therapist Tabitha Westbrook exposes coercive control, sex addiction, and abuse in the church—and why real repentance starts with truth.
Healing Isn’t a Quick Fix: Chuck DeGroat and I Talk Trauma, Faith, and the Slow Road to Wholeness
I recently sat down with Chuck DeGroat to talk about spiritual trauma, the slow work of healing, and how the kindness of God helps us recover what’s been lost. Together we explore embodied healing, therapy, and the power of compassionate presence.
When Faith Harms: Clergy Sexual Abuse, Trauma, and the Call for a Healing Church
Discover how survivor voices, trauma research, and church accountability can transform faith spaces in this powerful conversation with Dr. David Pooler.
Are You the Nagging Wife from Proverbs? Reclaiming Your Voice Through Biblical Literacy
Discover the true meaning behind the “nagging wife” in Proverbs and how biblical literacy can heal spiritual wounds, silence shame, and restore your voice.
When Shadows Meet Light: How Narrative Focused Trauma Care Disarms Shame
“There is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside you.” Maya Angelou. For trauma survivors that agony is palpable and deep. We need empathic witnesses to our stories. Learn how engaging your story through Narrative Focused Trauma Care can bring profound healing.
Finding a Healthy Community: A Pathway to Healing and Wholeness
Discover the transformative power of finding healthy community after trauma. Learn practical steps for building supportive relationships, setting boundaries, and reconnecting safely after abuse. Inspired by Tabitha Westbrook's Body & Soul, Healed & Whole.
Healing the Soul, Reclaiming the Body: A Path to Wholeness
Discover how survivors of sexual trauma can reclaim their bodies and heal holistically—mind, body, and spirit. Explore the power of breaking silence, reimagining healing, and moving toward wholeness in a world that needs change.
From Trauma to Triumph: A Non-preachy, Faith-based Guide to Healing & Restoration
Struggling with trauma? Discover a non-preachy, faith-based approach to healing and restoration. Learn how to overcome shame, invite God into your healing journey, and embrace His promise of wholeness. Start your path to emotional and spiritual renewal today! #FaithHealing #TraumaRecovery
Stop Setting Yourself on Fire: How to end people pleasing
Learn how to break free from people-pleasing, set healthy boundaries, and prevent burnout. Discover practical strategies to prioritize your well-being, say no without guilt, and reclaim your energy. Start living with confidence and balance today!
Understanding Sexual Coercion in Abusive Relationships: Why Saying No Can Be an Act of Self-Care
Learn why saying no to sex in an abusive relationship is an act of self-care, not manipulation. Explore the dynamics of coercive control, the impact of trauma, and how setting boundaries can empower survivors. Discover faith-based insights and resources for healing and support.
Create Your Vision Board & Word of the Year: A Guide to Setting Intentions & Finding Hope
Discover how to create a vision board and choose your word of the year to set intentions, cultivate hope, and transform your healing journey. Learn practical steps to visualize your goals and shift from surviving to thriving.
How to Ask for What You Need
Learn how to effectively communicate your needs, build strong relationships, and embrace support from your community. Discover practical steps to ask for help, overcome self-sufficiency struggles, and foster deeper connections. Healing happens in community—start advocating for yourself today.
Embracing Desire
Discover how to heal from trauma by embracing your desires and rediscovering what sets your soul on fire. Learn how to move past fear, self-doubt, and brokenness to pursue the passions God has placed in your heart. Start your journey toward wholeness and a life filled with purpose and joy.
Take a Hike
Hiking isn’t just about reaching the summit—it’s about the journey and the powerful mental health benefits that come with it. Even a short walk on a trail can lower stress, reduce anxiety, and improve sleep by resetting your circadian rhythm. Whether you're a beginner or a seasoned hiker, time in nature offers a breath of fresh air for both body and soul.